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Returning to School After 10 Years: What I Wish I'd Known

By Denise Okafor  ·  July 29, 2026

Returning to School After 10 Years: What I Wish I'd Known

I hadn't sat in a classroom — virtual or otherwise — in over a decade when I decided to finish my degree at 34. Here's what surprised me most, and what actually made the transition easier.

You Remember More Than You Think

I was terrified my brain had "forgotten how to study." In reality, the discipline I'd built managing a job and a household translated directly into managing coursework — I just had to trust it.

Technology Is the Easy Part

I worried about learning management systems and video calls more than the actual material. Within a week it was second nature. Most platforms are built to be simple on purpose.

Ask for Help Sooner Than Feels Comfortable

My biggest regret is waiting until week six to email my advisor about a scheduling conflict. Advisors and instructors deal with adult learners constantly — reaching out early is normal, not a sign you're behind.